你爱我吗？

飞到哪里都想着你
身与心分隔两地
我们爱情的距离 是否又重新适应
大部分的心情 怎么都缅怀过去
好几次雨过又天晴的期待都不灵
你爱我吗 你快乐吗
请给我个能结束今夜的回答
明天不爱 就留给明天
我只能这么想
你爱我吗？ 会快乐吗？
还需要什么回到最初的愿望
能再一次 毫无条件的去爱吧

你爱我吗？ 会快乐吗？
还需要什么回到最初的愿望
能再一次 毫无条件的去爱吧

还能许什么回到最初的愿望
蜡烛一吹 融化的就只有哀伤
蜡烛一吹 你会不会给我回答

Nasi Lemak2.0

等了好久，我终于能够去看这部戏了！哈哈~首先，我非常感谢家人的陪伴一起去看这部戏。特别要感谢二姨丈帮我们订票，还有二姨的笑声。真的棒极了！！这部戏真的很多好笑的画面，但是也有不好的一面。这部戏完全带出了我们国家的文化。看得出，戏里所有的演员都很爱过，而且都看得出有一个马来西亚的文化。

我们都常说，珍惜身边每一个人，事，物。虽然，着一些对我们来说非常的重要~但，当你开始失去一些对你重要的东西后，你就会感受到也学习到“珍惜”这个字。家人对我们来说，是很我们很重要的人物，家人之间彼此的关怀，扶持着对方。星期四下午，忽然接到舅舅的电话说~我的姨丈去世了。当我听到这个消息时，我真的很惊讶！甚至我也不敢相信这个消息。其实，正式的来说只从我长大开始工作后，我一年只和他见一次面。还记得小时候的我每次帮他捶背，长大后就完全没好好和他一起，反而住在那么靠近的我们~我却一年才见几次面。我们都很难接受姨丈的离开，因为他是被别人打伤头部，头部严重受伤而去世的。大家不都不知道真实的事情发生是如何？是意外？是人为？还是其他的原因？我不知道自己可以为姨丈做什么事情？但，我只盼望能够找到事情的真相。这个事情深深的影响我这两天的心情，不管我做什么我都会想到姨丈的事。今天的敬拜练习当中，我依然还想着姨丈的事。我忽然感到自己很软弱，很无助。因为我还没有办法把福音带给家人。今天的敬拜练习我真的感觉到自己很累，加上我不知要和谁说出自己心里面的一些话？到最后我依然把今天的练习交托给神！我在心里一直的祷告，求神带领我。让我从新回来，回到神的怀抱里，不在靠自己的能力走下去。

Love

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.

Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said Love all

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But love is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection

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最珍贵的礼物。

我除了收到30粒让我感动的鸡蛋，我还收到一个大大的钥匙~ 这是我妹妹亲手做的钥匙。真的很有心思~ 虽然她还没有能力买小小的金钥匙给我，但这粉红的钥匙让我感觉我自己是一位小公主。哈哈！！我把这钥匙挂在我床边的墙壁上~感恩妹妹为我做这钥匙，感觉到自己真的长大了~哈哈！

21岁生日。

感恩！感恩上帝带领我21一年的时间。21岁是代表拿到了钥匙~ 对我来说，很多人都会误会这个意思，往往会想到小孩不能做的事终于可以做了。但我的看法是，这钥匙代表着我开始可以去做对的事情，是蒙神喜悦的事。在很多事情上，我可以自己去决定。今年的生日出了惊喜，开心，感恩，之外更重要的是，对自己21年来的生命做一个反省~ 问会自己是否真的到达目标了吗？我忽然觉得生日出了要庆祝，我的生日也是妈妈的受难日。神安排我在这里，从她开始怀孕到把我带到这世界来，还有照顾我21年的时间。很多时候，要向自己最亲的人感恩是很难开口的，但是还是需要勇敢的突破。感恩少年人，身边的阿爸和阿妈你们陪着我成长的时间，还有可爱的二姨~我爱你！更重要的是，感恩我属灵的弟弟和妹妹，不管如何他们都愿意接纳我这姐姐~我爱你们~

父亲节那一天，我生病了。躺在床上的我，脑海一直想着，今天是父亲节。以前的我很讨厌为何有父亲节？我甚至也在问为何别人都在庆祝，而我没有这个机会？我非常感恩阿爸天父，祂 就好像我的父亲一样，看顾我，聆听我，保守我。不但这样 祂 还有话语教导我~ 另外在我生命里属灵的爸爸，我从小他就好像一位爸爸不断的教导我，提醒我，爱我。虽然他每次的语气都很重，但我从不觉得他很凶的骂我。但有时候负面就会觉得他说的话很伤我的心。冷静的想回，他说的每句话都是对的。有时候我会觉得他根本不了解我，但原来~ 虽然他时常出国外但是我的事他洋洋都知，而且是很清楚的。我从小被他骂最多，学的也是最多的。但如今让他非常的失望~ 我必须做回我自己。从新的去反省我之前做不对的事情。也要活出自我。