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等了好久，我终于能够去看这部戏了！哈哈~首先，我非常感谢家人的陪伴一起去看这部戏。特别要感谢二姨丈帮我们订票，还有二姨的笑声。真的棒极了！！这部戏真的很多好笑的画面，但是也有不好的一面。这部戏完全带出了我们国家的文化。看得出，戏里所有的演员都很爱过，而且都看得出有一个马来西亚的文化。

我们都常说，珍惜身边每一个人，事，物。虽然，着一些对我们来说非常的重要~但，当你开始失去一些对你重要的东西后，你就会感受到也学习到“珍惜”这个字。家人对我们来说，是很我们很重要的人物，家人之间彼此的关怀，扶持着对方。星期四下午，忽然接到舅舅的电话说~我的姨丈去世了。当我听到这个消息时，我真的很惊讶！甚至我也不敢相信这个消息。其实，正式的来说只从我长大开始工作后，我一年只和他见一次面。还记得小时候的我每次帮他捶背，长大后就完全没好好和他一起，反而住在那么靠近的我们~我却一年才见几次面。我们都很难接受姨丈的离开，因为他是被别人打伤头部，头部严重受伤而去世的。大家不都不知道真实的事情发生是如何？是意外？是人为？还是其他的原因？我不知道自己可以为姨丈做什么事情？但，我只盼望能够找到事情的真相。这个事情深深的影响我这两天的心情，不管我做什么我都会想到姨丈的事。今天的敬拜练习当中，我依然还想着姨丈的事。我忽然感到自己很软弱，很无助。因为我还没有办法把福音带给家人。今天的敬拜练习我真的感觉到自己很累，加上我不知要和谁说出自己心里面的一些话？到最后我依然把今天的练习交托给神！我在心里一直的祷告，求神带领我。让我从新回来，回到神的怀抱里，不在靠自己的能力走下去。

Love

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.

Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said Love all

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But love is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection

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